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Strap-On The Dong Of Your Dreams

Strap-ons come in a wide variety of sizes and shapes and are made for a variety of uses. Female partners who want to ride their partner can harness up and slip on a dong of any size. Vaginal penetration or pegging, it all becomes possible with a good strap-on. Men with erectile dysfunction or who wish they had more girth and length can use a hollow dildo in their strap-on harness. For female bodies, you can enjoy strapless strap-ons that let you penetrate yourself and your partner at the same time. Even better, your dildo doesn’t have to be a lifeless bit of plastic, feel free to use vibrating dildos for added pleasure.

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Kinky power exchange relationships or people who want new experiences and lack the equipment needed can all benefit from a strap-on – with or without a harness. Choose the dildo or vibrator that suits your needs. Apply as much lube as you need. Strap yourself in and get your partner into position. It doesn’t matter how you penetrate your partner, as long as you both want it and enjoy it… together.

Who Enjoys Strap-On Sex Toys?

Strap-on harnesses and dildos are so commonplace these days that you’ll find reference to them in popular television shows and movies regularly. From heterosexual couples looking for a unique thrill to bi-sexual, lesbian and gay partners, strap-on toys can enhance your love life in a variety of ways.

Many heterosexual couples use strap-on toys to explore anal sex for him. While many men might be hesitant, there are incredibly sensitive nerve endings around the prostate, and many men have incredibly intense orgasms during anal play, especially when manual stimulation of the penis is involved.

Women looking to include penetration into their lovemaking have long used strap-on toys. In fact, these unique sex toys were commonly marketed toward women in the past, though everybody seems to love strap-on toys today, and for good reason!

Red Rider Adjustable Strap On With 7-Inch DongRed Rider Adjustable Strap On With 7 Inch Dong

The Red Rider adjustable strap-on with 7-inch dong is the perfect starter kit for any couple. Pairing a well-made harness that’s adjustable to fit securely with a dildo that’s just the right size for vaginal or anal play, the Red Rider really can do no wrong in the bedroom.

The dildo has a slight curve at the tip, making it perfect for prostate and g-spot stimulation. Even if you decide to add more dildos to your toy box you’ll still be able to use the Red Rider harness since the dildo is detachable.

Feeldoe Vibrating Strapless Strap-OnFeeldoe Vibrating Strapless Strap On Silicone 6 Inch - Violet

Designed to be worn by a female partner, this incredible toy uses vibrations to stimulate the wearer while she wields her new six-inch strap on. Made to be comfortable for vaginal or anal play for intermediate users, the Feeldoe Vibrating Strapless Strap-On is one of the must-have toys of the new century.

Women and men love it, and there’s really no wrong way to use it. Add one to your collection right away!

Mr. Marcus Realistic R5 Dildo And HarnessMr. Marcus Realistic R5 Dildo and Harness

The Mr. Marcus Realistic R5 dildo and harness is the ultimate strap-on set for anybody looking for some serious size in the bedroom. From women looking for that ultra-full feeling with another female partner to men who just like it big, the Mr. Marcus will really pack a punch.

Offering over eight-inches in insertable length and thick 1.8-inches in girth, this serious toy isn’t for beginners. If you’re a little more experienced though, this sex harness and dildo set could be just what you need for maximum pleasure and fun in the bedroom.

Find It At Jack And Jill

No matter what you’re looking for, we’ve got the right fit for you. We also offer thousands of adult products from vibrators to sensual lubricants to turn an average night in the bedroom into the best night of your life!

Strap-on FAQs

Strap-on sex toys are hugely popular with adventurous couples in the bedroom. If you’re looking to add one to your toy chest, you probably have quite a few questions about choosing and using a strap-on. Keep reading to learn more about how a strap-on dildo can really fuel the fire in the bedroom.

Aren’t strap-ons just for lesbians?

Strapon sex toys are for anyone who wants to penetrate their partner. Strapons know no gender or sexual identity.  Lesbian and bisexual women may enjoy them, as well as heterosexual women who want to penetrate their partner. Men with erectile dysfunction or smaller than average penises also use strapons.

Will the harness fit my body?

That depends on your individual size. Many harnesses are adjustable and can fit most body types. Read the manufacturer’s description so you know what size they fit and use your tape measure to check yourself before buying a harness.

I’ve never penetrated my partner but I want to. What do I need to know about using a strap on?

Comfort is key in any kind of penetrative sex, especially if you’re using a sex toy. Make sure the harness or strapless toy fits well in or on your body first. With your partner, make sure they’re body and mind are warmed up and ready for penetration. Feel free to use lube to make this easier on you both. Anal penetration requires lots of lube. Vaginal penetration may not, depending on your partner. Start out nice and easy, checking in with your partner, until you find a rhythm that works for you both. Go as slowly as you need so that it feels good to your partner.

Are strap-ons only used for vaginal or anal penetration?

Not at all. While you’re using a strap on, treat it like a real penis. Your partner can give you a blowjob or you can use other parts of their body to “stimulate” your dong.

How do I clean the strapon harness and my dildo?

Many strap ons have removable dildos so you can clean it separately. Most dildos or vibrators can be cleaned with soap and water or a sex toy cleaner. Depending on the material of your harness, you may be able to wipe it down with a damp cloth or wash it with soap and water. Read the manufacturer’s instructions for your specific harness style.

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