Strapless Strap-ons

It depends on the style and size of the dildo you select. Most strapless strap-ons are made for vaginas. By inserting the shorter end into your anus, the dildo will be positioned farther back. As a result, less of the dildo will be available to penetrate your partner. If the strapless dildo is large or long enough, this shouldn’t be a problem.

While we don’t recommend giving up a daily kegel habit since it’s so good for your pelvic strength, you’ll certainly get a kegel workout while using a strapless strap-on. 

Lubricant is needed if penetration is difficult or painful for either you or your partner. The type of lube you use will depend on the material your strapless dildo is made from. Silicone, PVC, TPR/TPE, and other porous materials require a water-based lubricant. Most other materials can use a silicone based lube. Always read the manufacturer’s instructions to know what specific kind of lube you can use.

If you or your partner’s body can accommodate the additional penis or dildo, absolutely. The choice is up to your or your partner whether the strapless dildo is used vaginally or anally. You can add another dildo or if you have a penis, use your own as the second penetration. Take it slowly and use plenty of lubricant. Stop if you or your partner feel any pain. Stimulating your partner’s clitoris may help them relax making penetration easier.

Most of the time soap and water is all you need to clean your dildo. You can also use a sex toy cleaner that disinfects, too.