Fetishwear

How to Get Kinky with Your Partner for the First Time

Guides & Tips

How to Get Kinky with Your Partner for the First Time

You’ve confessed your kinks, talked about your secret BDSM fantasies, and even shopped for fetish gear together. Talking and thinking about your kinks isn’t the same as acting on them, though. When you’re ready to finally have your first kinky scene with your partner, here’s what you need to know. Get Specific It’s not enough […]

Why Couples Should Use Sex Toys Together

Guides & Tips

Why Couples Should Use Sex Toys Together

Do you usually use your sex toys when you’re masturbating? They don’t have to be relegated to solo play. Couples of all kinds enjoy all kinds of sex toys from vibrating to kinky. If you’re not ready to share your favorite toy with a partner, you can always shop together for something new. Why does […]

5 Ways to Use Sexy Lingerie in Kink and BDSM

Guides & Tips

5 Ways to Use Sexy Lingerie in Kink and BDSM

It doesn’t matter if you’re brand new to kink or you’ve been in the BDSM lifestyle for years. When you find and then put on the perfect fetish gear or sexy lingerie, you feel your kinky role even more than you usually do. It’s part costume and part seduction. Finding the right thing to wear […]

What You Need to Know About Role Play

Guides & Tips

What You Need to Know About Role Play

Role play is a great way to explore your deepest desires and try out new sexual acts and roles with your partner. Some people take to role play like they were born to it, easily pretending to be someone else for the fun of it. Others feel awkward AF and convince themselves they can’t do […]

5 More BDSM Myths We Need to Bust

Guides & Tips

5 More BDSM Myths We Need to Bust

This isn’t the first time we’ve busted kinky BDSM myths here at Jack and Jill, and it might not be the last. BDSM and kinky sex (technically two different things) are a lot of fun, get better with good sex toys, and get a lot of people off. But for people who think they might […]

What to Know Before You Try Bondage

Guides & Tips

What to Know Before You Try Bondage

Do you have a bondage fantasy that involves kinky sex with handcuffs or restraints and being tied up by your partner? For the person who wants to be tied up, it’s often about giving up control and being at the mercy of someone else. For a moment in time, they want someone else to take […]

6 Sexy Lingerie Looks to Wow Your Partner

Guides & Tips

6 Sexy Lingerie Looks to Wow Your Partner

Got a special date night planned? Want to make your partner drool and desperate to get you completely naked? Sexy lingerie that you love will definitely get their attention and keep the focus on your mutual pleasure. Surprise your partner at the door. Give them a striptease when you get home. Or just give them […]

How to Tell Your Partner You’re a Dominant

Guides & Tips

How to Tell Your Partner You’re a Dominant

For people who figure out or know they’re dominant and want to explore BDSM, it can happen in a variety of ways. Maybe your sexual fantasies have always been kinky. You may have read some erotica and felt something click inside you. Maybe you watched porn and wanted some of what you saw. Either way, […]

9 Sexy Resolutions You Definitely Need to Make

Guides & Tips

9 Sexy Resolutions You Definitely Need to Make

Tired of the same old New Year’s resolutions every year? Focus on your sexual pleasure instead! Not every resolution at the start of a new year needs to be about weight loss, running a marathon, or skydiving. This year, let your resolutions focus on pleasure, self-discovery, and sexual fun. Note: You should never do anything […]

5 Kinky Sex Toys to Try with Your Male Submissive

Guides & Tips

5 Kinky Sex Toys to Try with Your Male Submissive

Any sex toy can be kinky in a BDSM scene or a Dominance and submission (D/s) relationship. Some toys are made specifically so you can get your kink on. If you’re new to kink or you’re ready to add sex toys to your play, here are a few ideas if you or your partner is […]

7 Kinky Sex Toys to Try if You Love Spankings

Guides & Tips

7 Kinky Sex Toys to Try if You Love Spankings

A spanking is as simple as the palm of one person’s hand landing on another person’s bottom. You might not think sex toys have a place in spankings. Think again. Kinky sex toys can enhance your pleasure and pain, whether they’re designed to leave behind a red mark or not. If you’re into spanking your […]

Understanding Consent: What It Is and How to Get It

Guides & Tips

Understanding Consent: What It Is and How to Get It

It’s 2017 and there is still confusion about what “counts” as consent and what doesn’t. In nearly every sexual moment (outside of very specific kinky situations) anything other than a full-throated, enthusiastic, happy “Yes!” should make you pause. If you’re not sure it’s a big yes, ask. Still confused by what is and is not […]