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How to Get Kinky with Your Partner for the First Time

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How to Get Kinky with Your Partner for the First Time

You’ve confessed your kinks, talked about your secret BDSM fantasies, and even shopped for fetish gear together. Talking and thinking about your kinks isn’t the same as acting on them, though. When you’re ready to finally have your first kinky scene with your partner, here’s what you need to know. Get Specific It’s not enough […]

What You Need to Know About Role Play

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What You Need to Know About Role Play

Role play is a great way to explore your deepest desires and try out new sexual acts and roles with your partner. Some people take to role play like they were born to it, easily pretending to be someone else for the fun of it. Others feel awkward AF and convince themselves they can’t do […]

How to Tell Your Partner You’re a Dominant

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How to Tell Your Partner You’re a Dominant

For people who figure out or know they’re dominant and want to explore BDSM, it can happen in a variety of ways. Maybe your sexual fantasies have always been kinky. You may have read some erotica and felt something click inside you. Maybe you watched porn and wanted some of what you saw. Either way, […]

You Don’t Need Whips and Chains to Get Kinky

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You Don’t Need Whips and Chains to Get Kinky

Read a few books, watch a movie or two (you know the ones), and you might think that kinky sex involves lots of leather, plenty of whips, and a few scary contraptions out of the medieval world. Those things exist, and some people really enjoy them. But there’s much more to the world of kink […]

BDSM Aftercare: Giving Your Sub What They Deserve

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BDSM Aftercare: Giving Your Sub What They Deserve

There’s a lot more to BDSM than restraints and commands. Did you know intense scenes should be followed by aftercare? While we at Jack and Jill have toys for the dominant and submissive alike, we also want to ensure you have everything you need to meet your partner’s emotional needs. What is BDSM Aftercare? Aftercare […]

From the Dungeon: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM Safety

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From the Dungeon: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM Safety

From the now-ubiquitous Fifty Shades of Grey movie to the widespread popularity of fetishwear, it’s no wonder kink has made its way into the mainstream. If you’re ready to try your hand at Bondage and Discipline, Dominance or Submission (BDSM), understand that safety comes before you do. When practiced incorrectly, it can turn you off […]

Leather & Fetish Clothing Tips

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Leather & Fetish Clothing Tips

Diving into Leather & Fetish Clothing Fetish wear is an investment. Quality leather and latex clothing, if properly cared for, can last for years. Leather and latex are natural materials, and like your own skin, you need to clean and nourish your fetish wear to help retain its durability and texture. When selecting your outfit, make sure your […]

What’s Your Fetishwear style?

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What’s Your Fetishwear style?

If Fifty Shades of Grey can drag curious housewives out of an otherwise vanilla lifestyle into the open with their kinks, perhaps seasoned fetishists can now feel comfortable about the kinks they’ve long enjoyed behind closed doors. Regardless of your opinion on mainstream kink (more specifically, the horror of hearing your own mother reference Christian […]