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Aftercare: Getting What You Need

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Aftercare: Getting What You Need

If you’re new to the kink and BDSM world, you may be new to the term “aftercare.” It’s a word that gets tossed around a lot. But it’s worthwhile to take a moment to understand and educate yourself. What is it, why is it important, and how to get it if you need it. What […]

Niche Kink Toys for Couples and How to Play with Them

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Niche Kink Toys for Couples and How to Play with Them

Kink and BDSM is an incredibly diverse world. Beyond the better known whips, chains, and ropes, there are nearly endless kinks, fetishes, and toys to explore.  We wanted to share a few of the more niche kink toys from our collection with you. Perhaps one will strike a chord and they’ll inspire you to try […]

What is BDSM?

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What is BDSM?

If you think of BDSM and the 50 Shades books or movies come to mind, you’re not alone. But BDSM is so much more (and better) than what fiction depicts. That being said, it’s also risky and not for everyone. Before you get your kink on, there are a few things you need to know […]

Fun and Creative Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for Kinksters

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Fun and Creative Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for Kinksters

We can be sure that Valentine’s Day is going to look a little different this year. Thanks to the ongoing pandemic, more of us will be celebrating at home (if we’re lucky enough to live with our loved ones), while others will be having remote dates.  We thought we’d help you start getting into the […]

The Best Vegan-Friendly Kink Products for All Budgets

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The Best Vegan-Friendly Kink Products for All Budgets

Materials like leather and suede are tremendously popular for kink products. There’s a good reason for that. They’re safe, durable, feel great, and look beautiful. But many people don’t feel comfortable using kinky toys made from animal products.  I’m a vegetarian and though I will buy leather and suede items on occasion, I do have […]

5 Horror Films to Get You Feeling Sexy and Spooky This Halloween

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5 Horror Films to Get You Feeling Sexy and Spooky This Halloween

Spooky Season has officially arrived and what better way to get yourself in the mood, than with some scary and sexy movies? The horror genre is rife with tropes that lean into sex alongside fear, and there’s a good reason. Fear and arousal occur in the same areas of the brain and therefore are inextricably […]

5 BDSM Principles That Vanilla Relationships Can Benefit From

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5 BDSM Principles That Vanilla Relationships Can Benefit From

Neither BDSM relationships nor vanilla (aka non-kinky) relationships are any better or worse than the other. It’s all about personal preference and what you need as an individual to be satisfied in a relationship. That being said, there are BDSM principles and practices that don’t always make an appearance in vanilla relationships. While a declared […]

Understanding Vampire Kinks and How to Practice Them

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Understanding Vampire Kinks and How to Practice Them

Vampires are undeniably sexy. Thankfully, our favorite vampires always get a bit of extra kinky play around Halloween each year. This makes sense because vampires intersect with a lot of subgroups of BDSM and they allow for a lot of imagination and creativity in roleplay scenarios. There is no set standard for vampire lore and […]

9 Paddles to Take Your Kinky Spanking Fun to a New Level

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9 Paddles to Take Your Kinky Spanking Fun to a New Level

Spankings are often called a gateway kink because a lot of people find their kinky side from a hand landing on their butt. When you’re ready to explore BDSM fun in new ways, take your spanking experience to another level with a high-quality paddle. Not sure where to start? Check out this list! Lust Bondage […]

What Is A Foot Fetish?

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What Is A Foot Fetish?

Here at Jack and Jill Adult, we love to celebrate all things kinky! Including exploring fun with fetishes. Everyone has that one thing that gets them off. For some people, its adventurous role play. Others like watching their partners get intimate with someone else. Being able to express your desires with your sexual partner or […]

A Kinky Guide to Cupping

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A Kinky Guide to Cupping

There’s so much kinky fun to try with when you get involved in BDSM but where do you start? What if you’re not sure about what you can tolerate or what your partner might like? Maybe you want to make pretty marks on your partner’s skin but they don’t like certain kinks. You could try […]

How to Put Together a Basic BDSM Play Bag for Under $150

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How to Put Together a Basic BDSM Play Bag for Under $150

People who are just starting to explore kink and BDSM are often put off by the perceived cost of entry. It’s true – kink gear can be seriously expensive! Who among us has not lusted after a custom built spanking bench or a vintage violet wand or a $300 bespoke flogger at some point? However, […]