How to Get Kinky with Your Partner for the First Time

How to Get Kinky with Your Partner for the First Time

You’ve confessed your kinks, talked about your secret BDSM fantasies, and even shopped for fetish gear together. Talking and thinking about your kinks isn’t the same as acting on them, though. When you’re ready to finally have your first kinky scene with your partner, here’s what you need to know. Get Specific It’s not enough […]

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5 Ways to Use Sexy Lingerie in Kink and BDSM

5 Ways to Use Sexy Lingerie in Kink and BDSM

It doesn’t matter if you’re brand new to kink or you’ve been in the BDSM lifestyle for years. When you find and then put on the perfect fetish gear or sexy lingerie, you feel your kinky role even more than you usually do. It’s part costume and part seduction. Finding the right thing to wear […]

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What You Need to Know About Role Play

What You Need to Know About Role Play

Role play is a great way to explore your deepest desires and try out new sexual acts and roles with your partner. Some people take to role play like they were born to it, easily pretending to be someone else for the fun of it. Others feel awkward AF and convince themselves they can’t do […]

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5 More BDSM Myths We Need to Bust

5 More BDSM Myths We Need to Bust

This isn’t the first time we’ve busted kinky BDSM myths here at Jack and Jill, and it might not be the last. BDSM and kinky sex (technically two different things) are a lot of fun, get better with good sex toys, and get a lot of people off. But for people who think they might […]

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6 Sexy Lingerie Looks to Wow Your Partner

6 Sexy Lingerie Looks to Wow Your Partner

Got a special date night planned? Want to make your partner drool and desperate to get you completely naked? Sexy lingerie that you love will definitely get their attention and keep the focus on your mutual pleasure. Surprise your partner at the door. Give them a striptease when you get home. Or just give them […]

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How to Tell Your Partner You’re a Dominant

How to Tell Your Partner You’re a Dominant

For people who figure out or know they’re dominant and want to explore BDSM, it can happen in a variety of ways. Maybe your sexual fantasies have always been kinky. You may have read some erotica and felt something click inside you. Maybe you watched porn and wanted some of what you saw. Either way, […]

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9 Sexy Resolutions You Definitely Need to Make

9 Sexy Resolutions You Definitely Need to Make

Tired of the same old New Year’s resolutions every year? Focus on your sexual pleasure instead! Not every resolution at the start of a new year needs to be about weight loss, running a marathon, or skydiving. This year, let your resolutions focus on pleasure, self-discovery, and sexual fun. Note: You should never do anything […]

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Understanding Consent: What It Is and How to Get It

Understanding Consent: What It Is and How to Get It

It’s 2017 and there is still confusion about what “counts” as consent and what doesn’t. In nearly every sexual moment (outside of very specific kinky situations) anything other than a full-throated, enthusiastic, happy “Yes!” should make you pause. If you’re not sure it’s a big yes, ask. Still confused by what is and is not […]

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