If Fifty Shades of Grey can drag curious housewives out of an otherwise vanilla lifestyle into the open with their kinks, perhaps seasoned fetishists can now feel comfortable about the kinks they’ve long enjoyed behind closed doors. Regardless of your opinion on mainstream kink (more specifically, the horror of hearing your own mother reference Christian Grey’s antics over brunch), BDSM is here to stay. Regardless of your position on the kink spectrum, there is a wide range of fetishwear products to fit your every need and we’ve got you covered at Jack and Jill.
The apprehensive newbie
Let’s not terrify you with a ten inch strap-on just yet. Try dressing up to “get into character” or testing the submissive waters with a beginner’s bondage kit. There are dozens of restraint options for the kinky rookie ranging from gentle silk ties to padded handcuffs. Find what makes you comfortable.
We suggest: Black Lace Satin Corset ($59.90) and Sex & Mischief Beginner’s Handcuffs ($13)
For Sir or Mistress
Once you’ve established roles and know what you like, upgrade your toy collection with a new flogger or paddle. Try surprising your dom/domme with a butt plug and full permission to surprise you with it while blindfolded one night (not that you’re in any position to be giving orders!).
We suggest: Faux Leather Flogger ($11) and Mood Naughty Butt Plug ($22.20)
Submissives and slaves
Every obedient sub deserves a proper collar. Dress up your partner or yourself in a decorative leather choker or stick with a simple stainless steel piece for a fetishwear marriage of function and elegance.
We suggest: Rapture Round Stainless Steel Collar ($80) or Fetish Fantasy Gold Collar & Leash ($30)
The indecisive switch
For the ultimate in indoor fetishwear, check out switch-friendly products like harnesses and strap-ons. Depending on the scene, you can simply lay back and enjoy or take the lead with an adjustable harness that provides dual pleasure as you dominate that good little sub of yours.
We suggest: Dual Harness with removable vibrating dong and plug ($73.20) or 10-Function Silicone Love Rider Rippler ($65.90)
At the core of fetishism lies freedom of expression and the complete release of inhibitions, so don’t be afraid to talk to your partner about your desires and listen to theirs. Peruse a sex toy collection and create a product wish list together. The important thing is that it ends in good, clean, consensual fun. Or dirty fun. That’s okay, too!
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