Magazine, Author: Kendra Pike

Kendra Pike is a sex blogger and freelancer who writes about intimacy, sexuality, and human connection. She has written extensively about female masturbation, dating misadventures, and pop culture.

Beyond Beginners: How to Take Your BDSM Experience to a New Level

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Beyond Beginners: How to Take Your BDSM Experience to a New Level

If you’ve already delved into the world of bondage, dominance, and sadomasochism and want to explore further, you can use your BDSM sex toys and experience in new ways. Here are a few tips to take your kink practice beyond the basics. Use BDSM toys on new areas of the body An easy way to […]

Focusing on Masturbation for Your Mental Health

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Focusing on Masturbation for Your Mental Health

With everything going on in the world right now, thanks to the pandemic, we need to take special care of our mental health. We can do this with regular masturbation. If you don’t already have a regular self-pleasure practice, it might be time to start. The benefits of masturbation are backed up by science. It […]

A Smarter Way to Buy Sex Toys

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A Smarter Way to Buy Sex Toys

Many of us are now entering month five of a global pandemic that has re-shaped our lives in countless ways. Knowing cash is tight, I want to share some money-saving tips I’ve learned over the years for purchasing sex toys. because you can experience sexual pleasure with sex toys even when you’re on a budget! […]

Emotionally Safer Ways to Masturbate with Your Partner(s)

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Emotionally Safer Ways to Masturbate with Your Partner(s)

When I was younger, mutual masturbation was a fun thing I did for a few minutes with a sexual partner before moving on to other activities. Then I discovered how a buzzing bullet vibrator could bring me to a roaring orgasm. The next time I was in a relationship, I wanted to share what I’d […]

Busting Five Myths About Asexuality

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Busting Five Myths About Asexuality

Happy Pride Month! Though Pride will necessarily be different this year, I hope those of you who are LGBTQ+ find meaningful ways to celebrate. What does the ‘A’ in LGBTQ+ stand for, anyway? Some people think it means “ally.” It actually stands for an often overlooked part of the queer community: asexuals and aromantics. Let’s […]

Tips for Masturbating with Physical Limitations

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Tips for Masturbating with Physical Limitations

When I was in my twenties, I masturbated so often that one year I strained a muscle in my inner thigh. Too embarrassed to tell anyone, I put up with it for months, occasionally limping. The nature of my injury hit me when I tried to climb into the cab of my dad’s truck. My […]

Four Reasons To Watch Netflix’s Sex Education with Your Partner(s)

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Four Reasons To Watch Netflix’s Sex Education with Your Partner(s)

With all the reasons to stay indoors right now, why not check out the much-talked-about Netflix show Sex Education? Rather than the documentary the title suggests, it’s a fascinating character-driven drama that will have you and your partner(s) talking about sex and relationships for hours. If you’ve already devoured all two seasons of the show, […]