Magazine, Author: Kelvin Sparks

Kelvin Sparks is a London based bisexual trans man who writes about sex on the internet. You can find his work at KelvinSparks.com, and his tweets (at)Kelvinsparks_

How To Choose a Butt Plug for Long-Term Wear

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How To Choose a Butt Plug for Long-Term Wear

Anal play is fun in the bedroom. For some, though, it’s far more interesting outside the bedroom in the form of long-term butt plug wear. You may find the “naughtiness” of wearing a plug out in public arousing. You may just want to feel stretched out. Whatever the reason, when choosing a plug for long […]

Everything You Need to Know About Vaginal Fisting

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Everything You Need to Know About Vaginal Fisting

Vaginal fisting, the act of inserting a fist into the vagina, still has a level of stigma attached to it, especially since it almost never comes up in sex education classes or content. To many people, it’s primarily associated with hardcore porn. Plenty of myths still circulate about it — including that fisting will permanently […]

5 Sex Toys for Couples Who Have Vulvas

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5 Sex Toys for Couples Who Have Vulvas

Sex toys for couples often make the assumption that the “couple” in question is a male/female cisgender couple, but this of course isn’t always the case! A couple can consist of people with any gender and genital combination, and different genital combinations may be better suited to some toys than others. Check out these sex […]

A Brief History of the Hanky Code

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A Brief History of the Hanky Code

June is LGBTQ Pride Month, and what better way to celebrate than highlighting a piece of LGBTQ culture and history that doesn’t get much discussion — the hanky code! Believe it or not, there’s even a code for sex toys. What is the Hanky Code? Put simply, the hanky (handkerchief) code is a way of […]

6 Ways to Shake Up Your Solo Sex Routine

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6 Ways to Shake Up Your Solo Sex Routine

May is Masturbation Month! What better way to celebrate than by suggesting some ways to shake up your solo sex life? If you find yourself stuck in a rut, here are six suggestions of ways to extend, change, or shake up your routine. Set the Mood Setting the mood for solo sex is just as […]

5 Ways to Use a Dildo (That Aren’t Penetration)

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5 Ways to Use a Dildo (That Aren’t Penetration)

Primarily intended as toys for penetrative vaginal or anal play, you can use dildos in so many other ways! Whether using a dildo with a partner or for solo play, consider less conventional ways you can use a dildo as a fun and useful tool. While not an exhaustive list, check out five suggestions other […]