Magazine, Author: Kayla Lords

Kayla is a freelancer writer, sex blogger, and podcaster who love and lives the kink life. Find her on Twitter or on our blog.

What is BDSM?

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What is BDSM?

If you think of BDSM and the 50 Shades books or movies come to mind, you’re not alone. But BDSM is so much more (and better) than what fiction depicts. That being said, it’s also risky and not for everyone. Before you get your kink on, there are a few things you need to know […]

Lube 101: How to Pick the Right One for You

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Lube 101: How to Pick the Right One for You

You’ve been told you need to use lubricant, but why? What even is lube? And how do you know which one to choose? If you’re overwhelmed by lube-talk, you’re not alone. Consider this your quick and dirty introduction to personal lubricant and finding the right kind for you.  What is Lube? Personal lubricant aka lube […]

Make Your Gift to Each Other a Couples Sex Toy This Year

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Make Your Gift to Each Other a Couples Sex Toy This Year

The holidays are fast approaching, and you’re likely making a gift list, checking it twice, and wondering what to get your significant other this year. Some couples buy a gift meant for both partners to enjoy like a new smart TV, tickets for a cruise (maybe not in 2020, though), something you’ll both get enjoyment […]

9 Dildos You’ll Be Thankful For Once You Try Them

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9 Dildos You’ll Be Thankful For Once You Try Them

Finding a good, solid dildo that gives you exactly what you crave is something to be thankful for at any time of year. Shopping for the perfect sex toy is hard, but finding the right one is magical. You’ll want to say “thank you!” to the sex toy gods when it happens. Use our list […]

8 Vibrating Anal Toys to Make Backdoor Pleasure Even Better

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8 Vibrating Anal Toys to Make Backdoor Pleasure Even Better

The most important thing about any anal toy you use is comfort. Lube is a must, and buying the right size is required. But one feature that can make a big difference in your backdoor pleasure is vibration. The added sensation in vibrating anal sex toys helps your body relax and eliminates discomfort. Even better, […]

9 Strapless Strapons You’ll Love Every Inch Of

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9 Strapless Strapons You’ll Love Every Inch Of

Strapless strap-ons are an advanced level sex toy for couples who enjoy strap-on sex. Instead of a harness holding a dildo in place, you (or your partner) must use strong pelvic muscles to keep it in. For long-time strap-on lovers, the strapless option is a great way to change up your mutual pleasure. Look for […]

5 BDSM Principles That Vanilla Relationships Can Benefit From

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5 BDSM Principles That Vanilla Relationships Can Benefit From

Neither BDSM relationships nor vanilla (aka non-kinky) relationships are any better or worse than the other. It’s all about personal preference and what you need as an individual to be satisfied in a relationship. That being said, there are BDSM principles and practices that don’t always make an appearance in vanilla relationships. While a declared […]

9 Paddles to Take Your Kinky Spanking Fun to a New Level

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9 Paddles to Take Your Kinky Spanking Fun to a New Level

Spankings are often called a gateway kink because a lot of people find their kinky side from a hand landing on their butt. When you’re ready to explore BDSM fun in new ways, take your spanking experience to another level with a high-quality paddle. Not sure where to start? Check out this list! Lust Bondage […]

8 Cat-Inspired Sex Toys That Will Put You in a Spooky and Sexy Mood

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8 Cat-Inspired Sex Toys That Will Put You in a Spooky and Sexy Mood

October brings out the spooky and sexy vibes in many of us. Black cats are often part of the fun, from sexy cat costumes and kinky kitten play. If want to make this Halloween sexier than ever, why not do it with cat-inspired sex toys? You’ll find everything from kinky gear to anal toy to […]

9 Luxury Sex Toys Worth Investing In

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9 Luxury Sex Toys Worth Investing In

When you think “luxury” you might think “expensive,” and you’re not completely wrong. Anything labeled luxurious, including sex toys, tends to cost more than their less luxurious counterparts. But with sex toys, it often means they’re made of better quality material and include features the $20 version just doesn’t. If you’re looking for a special […]

What Sex Therapists Do and Don’t Do For Your Sex Life

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What Sex Therapists Do and Don’t Do For Your Sex Life

Going to therapy for any reason still carries stigma and confusion for many people, unfortunately. It’s even worse for sex therapy. There are a lot of misconceptions about who needs to go, what happens during an appointment, and what it says about you if you decide to see a sex therapist. Jack and Jill Adult […]

9 Glass Dildos That Look Beautiful and Feel Even Better

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9 Glass Dildos That Look Beautiful and Feel Even Better

A good dildo doesn’t just feel good with each thrust. It also looks good sitting next to your bed (or in your hand). Glass dildos offer a lot of benefits from easy clean-up to fun with temperature play. But what makes them stand out the most is the beauty of the glass, texture, and added […]