Sex toys have a reputation for being solely for women. The thinking goes that women have toys because they don’t have a partner or in place of their partner. First of all, sex toys can be an enhancement to any relationship. They provide added sensations and new ways to orgasm. And there’s no shame to using them when you’re single.
And second, they aren’t just for women, either. While very few people talk about sex toys for men, they exist and are growing in popularity all the time. Using a toy to get off isn’t something to worry about or be embarrassed to admit. Guys don’t lose “points” because they’re willing to experiment with sensations and try something new.
For the adventurous guy or the one who just wants orgasms in a different way, here are some masturbation toys you might want to consider for your next wanking session.
Why not name a specific Fleshlight? Because no one has that kind of time. You can choose your favorite porn star or a futuristic looking sleeve. Either way, you’re going to get friction your hand just can’t provide. No, it doesn’t feel exactly like a vagina, but it’s not bad either. Do you prefer the feeling of a mouth around you? They’ve got those, too.
Toys for penises have come a long way in a short time. Some masturbation sleeves aren’t something you have to pump in and out of or worry that it might be too big or too small for you. Instead, these toys wrap around your shaft and, with the help of a few pulse or vibrations, get you hard and keep you there. Depending on the kind you choose, they may even give you bigger orgasms than you’re used to.
Whether it’s a prostate massager or a vibrating anal plug, anal toys can provide extra sensation in the back while you do the work up front. Liking anal play of any kind has nothing to do with your sexuality, either. It’s all about how everything feels. If you’re looking for an extra punch, use an anal toy while masturbating with a sleeve or other toy around your penis. You may never put clothes on again.
The vast majority of vibrators are marketed to people with vaginas, but that doesn’t mean you can’t use them too. Buy one for yourself or borrow your partner’s (with their consent). Either way, you’ll want to experiment with where it feels best and on what setting. The nice thing about most vibrators is that they come with a variety of options so if the top vibration is too much, you can try something else. Because of the wand-like design, you can also position it wherever it feels best. You might like it just under your glans or right next to your testicles. Play around until you find what works best.
Body Part Toys
You probably have a favorite place you like to bury your penis whenever you have sex don’t you? Vagina, anus, mouth, or breast – which is your favorite? It’s easy to see masturbation as a last-place solution when your preferences are so strong. These days, though, you don’t have to settle for your hand. Wherever you like to put it, there’s a toy for you – breast, ass, pussy, or mouth.
If a Fleshlight is a bit too much, and you just want something that’s easy to hold in your hand, pocket pussies might be the solution. They give you the same grip and friction of the other toys, but they fit in your hand. Thrust or stroke until you reach that spine-tingling, gut-wrenching climax you’re looking for. Some pocket pussies are meant for one time use, and others can be reused a few times as long as you take care of it and keep it clean.
Whatever you’ve heard about masturbation toys, it’s either all true or all lies. The truth is that anyone with a penis can enjoy toys, even if they’re designed for different body parts. Taking a little help from technology doesn’t say anything about who you are as a person. New sensations can be exciting and fun. Toys give you a way to explore your body and your desires, either alone or with a partner.
If you’re tired of the same old thing and your hand bores you, it might be time to start your own toy collection.
Check out our infographic below and share it with anyone curious about what sex toy they should buy for themselves…or for you!